So the next person you're intimate with, practice giving all your passion to them with the techniques of intimate touch. Be gentle, be firm, be tentative, be present and laugh and bite and lick and massage and feel her whole being respond adoringly to your love and sensual touch. Go for it. Do it on the dance floor. If someone welcomes you to dance with them, touch their neck, trace their face with your fingers light, touch and stroke their hands, place your lips lightly on their neck and let them feel your breath. Close your eyes and really feel their movement against your body's movement.